Ask Miki for April 10th 2018

Dear Miki:

I have been sleeping with my ex on a casual basis. I was staying with him for a bit because I had nowhere to live and he’s been raising our daughter the last two years. Our daughter doesn’t know I’m her mother, although after recent discussions, we’re going to tell her soon. It suited both our needs however, I just found out over the weekend that he started seeing someone else. This is the third time he has done this to me and although I’m not “hurt” I am disappointed that he wouldn’t break it off with me first before pursuing someone else. Now I knew it wasn’t going to be a long term relationship, after all but I thought that at least I’d find someone first. In fact there is this guy I’m going to see this weekend, we’ve been toying with the idea of getting together for the past year but nothing has ever happened. He’s extremely shy and has never asked me out. Should I ask him out now that I’m available? Do you think it would be a good match or do you see someone else that is in my near future for a more long term stable relationship.

Signed B

Both of you need to stop using each other as emotional band aids, so you don’t have to be alone until each of you meets someone new. You really need some time on your own to discover what you need in your life and what will make you truly happy.  You’re sliding from relationship to relationship hoping that this will be the cleanser of your troubles and it will only serve to create more complications for you.  You also need to make your ex explain to your daughter who you are, now not later or you will really regret it in the future. Stop being his temporary bed buddy.  The relationship is over. Leave it that way.

 

Daily Affirmation

Positive relationships are built out of love, negative relationships are based on convenience.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Published in: on April 11, 2018 at 1:47 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 9th 2018

Dear Miki:

My Husband of eleven years and I have four boys.  I am Canadian and so are three of our boys, one was born overseas. We lived in Portugal for eight years, but it was getting very hard so we decided to come back to Canada. I’m now here with the boys and he is back home. I’m in the process of doing my husbands paperwork for him to come to Canada, it was a year in October that he has been away from us. We were fine until a couple of months ago when I was told that he was cheating on me. He says its nothing, and he wants to be with us. Everyone overseas tells me that he is always with this other woman, and she is sleeping in our bed in our home over there. I love him very much but I am scared sometimes. I feel like my life is over and I should never have come back to Canada, even though it is better here for my children, and there is now food on the table everyday.  I want to know is there any hope, or am I the loser.

Signed F

You are obviously devoted to keeping your family together. Your husband has taken advantage of your situation and gotten himself a temporary wife back home overseas.  Leave him there, continue to build yourself a new life and get a new man here in Canada. Let his new girlfriend build a better life for him at her expense.

Daily Affirmation:

If we look hard enough there is always a solution for our greatest concerns.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 10, 2018 at 11:29 pm  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki For April 5th 2018

Dear Miki
My boyfriend and I have been together two and a half years and on and off for about six months . Now that we have gotten back together his attitude towards me has completely changed and I don’t understand why. He takes me nowhere and the reason is because he’s busy. He shows no affection towards me and he says its because you should never let someone know exactly how you feel about them. I have said that I love him and had it said back in return, but it doesn’t seem believable. I have not yet been properly introduced to his family members and he has no reason for this other than he’s busy. I met his mother only by chance when I went over to his house to visit and she happened to be there. I said hello introduced myself, and good night. I want to know does he really love me? Are we going to last much longer?
Signed Lonely

Its time to call this relationship off. There is no deep attachment towards you from this man and you will find the relationship going nowhere in the long run. Its also causing anger and unhappiness. Let him continue to be busy in his life, while you get busy finding a new love interest.

Daily Affirmation:
Anger is a negative emotion that only serves to obstruct us from finding happiness

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 6, 2018 at 1:41 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 4 2018

Dear Miki,
I became involved with a married man a year ago, understanding that his relationship with his wife was one of convenience not love. I was bouncing back from a relationship and thought I would never let anyone close again. I let down my guard and began to care. As I drew closer to him I understood his lifestyle is unconventional and that he has several women at once, sometimes intermingling these relationships. I’ve tried to move away from this relationship in the past, but it seems I am strangely attracted to the chaos. It’s been sometime since our last encounter. When we’re together, he expresses love and hopes for the future, then vanishes without a trace until the next random encounter. The story of his life continues to unravel, and there is still much I don’t know, so the truth is a blur. Since he has come into my life he has helped me emotionally in so many ways, and I think perhaps that is why I do not harbor any ill feelings towards him. I have a strange peace and confidence in what we share. Can you make some sense out of this situation? Should I expect him to come around again? Can you make any future predictions about our relationship?
Signed Wondering…

This is a very charming,manipulative person that you are dealing with here who is drawing on your trust and affection, not to mention that of all the others involved. He’s using all of you to boost his ego and feed his fantasies. It’s truly irrelevant how well he treats you. I would end this fast, its obstructing you from meeting the right person. Stop wondering about having a relationship here, you and everyone else are just a convenience for him like the poor victim who married him.

Daily Affirmation

Deception is an arrow that plunges deeply into the spirit of an unsuspecting heart and eventually tears it apart.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 5, 2018 at 4:02 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 3 2018

Dear Miki

In April of 2000, I had a baby boy at Toronto East general hospital. Children’s aid society got involved prior to his release and made our lives a nightmare for 3 years. We had him at home only 3 months before his father got violent in front of the worker, and an apprehension warrant was issued, and our son taken away. We had supervised visits with him until he was 10 months old, until we lost our initial fight in court. I wound up appealing for 2 more years and still lost because his father wasn’t out of the picture long enough. I think about my son daily, every birthday has been torture for me. With his 18th birthday coming up soon, I’m trying really hard to find him to tell him about medical conditions he probably will inherit from me, if he doesn’t already know. The non identifying information I received about him and his family from 2004 indicates that he was well aware of his adoption. His mother was a teacher, his father was a firefighter. He was a very affectionate child and The only picture I have of him after he was taken was taken at his foster home at age 2. Do you think I’ll be able to find him?

The story you tell is filled with struggle and heartbreak. Its obvious that is only coming from you not the father of your child now or in the past. You made some efforts to try and get you child back but they failed and his life took a major turn towards a different future. I think the problem that you are now faced with is that despite the fact that you are on the hunt for your son he is not yet looking for you. Until the time comes you can consider this situation at a stalemate. I know that it will hurt to hear this , but at least take some comfort in knowing that he was raised by good people, well cared for and there is a place and time for everything in destiny.

Daily Affirmation
Loss is a painful wound but with the passage of time someone comes along who helps it to heal

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 3, 2018 at 11:39 pm  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 27 2018

Dear Miki,

I’m newly married to a woman who is two years older than me, who has a seven year old boy from her Ex. I love her and she loves me. She loves her son and he’s very close to his Mom. Her son was without his father for more than three years, or better to say, he doesn’t really know his father. I consider her relationship with him to be normal except for one problem. When I kiss my wife, he has to come and ask his mom to kiss him also, and hear from her that she loves him more than me. She sometime kisses him herself, but won’t come near me. When we are together he asks his mom if he can lay down on the bed and he parks there hugging and kissing his mom. When I want to be affectionate and when her son is around, sometimes she seems cold to me and I’m confused and a bit afraid about that. This has made me upset and she understands that I’m right about this situation, but she does nothing about it. I’m waiting for an answer from your side

Signed J

Your new found happiness is not over but there is some work to be done . Your spouse’s child is feeling a bit threatened by your closeness with his mom as he has had her all to himself for several years.  Your spouse has to put her foot down and stop him from competing for her attention at this young age or it will grow into a bigger battle in the future. Let her get the ground work started, but ultimately she has to let you as her husband help her work this out and shying away from your affections to please her child is definitely not the solution.  She is losing her parent to Child boundaries and needs to get them back before she loses them and you in the future.

 

Daily Affirmation:

It is important to have personal boundaries even with those that we love the most.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 28, 2018 at 2:59 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 26 2018

Dear Miki,

I’m a 26 year old female that just got a new job which I enjoy, however I still feel unhappy and lost at this point in my life. I’m currently still living at home with my son and feel its time for me to go out on my own. I would also like to be in a meaningful and worthwhile relationship,but have been unable to find the right man. I was wondering if you could enlighten my situation of what you see for me, and if I am currently following the right path in life?

Lost

In terms of following the right path, it’s time to spread your wings and fly on your own.  Living at home has provided you with necessities but has slowed you down in your personal life.  The coming year should bring some new opportunities for romance for you, so don’t be afraid to move forward, it’s time to get back in tune with making yourself happy.

Daily Affirmation:

Correcting our mistakes can only make things better, living in them is a breeding ground for unhappiness.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 28, 2018 at 2:30 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 22 2018

Dear Miki,

My boyfriend and I were together for three years. I was there when he was down with no job and needed to go to school. Yet, he treated me badly. I endured that because I love him. He’d borrow money to gamble. If I don’t give, he’d call it quits. Later, he’ll apologize. Since he found a job, he barely calls. If I call, he’s got nothing to say. When I was at his place, I saw women’s telephone numbers. It made me think he’s been cheating but denies it.  Am I wrong?

Signed, M

Whether or not he is cheating ought to be the least of your concerns. You are in an intolerable position in this relationship and you endured not out of love but more out of fear of being alone. You know that he has no love for you.  You tolerate it because you have convinced yourself you will not find anyone else.  This is not true. There is someone worth the love you can give. Get rid of him.

 

Daily Affirmation

Everyday spent in a relationship gone wrong is a day of future happiness lost.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 24, 2018 at 4:53 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 21 2018

Dear Miki
I had a whirlwind two-year romance with a wonderful man who made me feel loved and cherished. After a few months of trying to ‘blend’ our families, we broke up. I have children and he has children. Living together caused him a long daily commute and put some distance between himself and his children (who he is very dedicated to). Is there any hope of us reconciling or should I just move on? Something in my heart tells me this is not over yet.
Signed, Unhappy

 

There are deeper issues surrounding your break-up than the long daily commute and the distance it put between him and his children. You need to explore and address these issues if you are to have any chance of reconciling. Unfortunately, it comes with some very difficult decisions on his part.

DAILY AFFIRMATION
There is always more than one side to a story and your job in love is not to allow your heart to see only one.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 22, 2018 at 4:20 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 20 2018

Dear Miki,
I have been in relationship with a girl for past three years and things were good for two years but after that things started to be rough. For the past six months now she has been saying the worst things to me, like she doesn’t want me anymore, and she has guys who are begging to be with her. Anytime that we go out together with her friends or my friends she embarrasses me, but I try to ignore that. I Just want to know if there is any future for us or is it just that I am wasting my time?
K

You possess a great deal of patience for a young man and also a lot of compassion. Your feelings are not being returned, they are being deeply hurt by this girl. Just because you are a guy doesn’t mean that you have to take this kind of treatment, in order to be seen as a gentleman. She is not worth the time and tolerance you have already wasted. Stop allowing this woman to walk all over your heart, and tell her to
take a walk instead.

Daily Affirmation:
Blessings come in the smallest ways, try to recognize yours today.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 21, 2018 at 4:35 am  Leave a Comment