Ask Miki for April 4 2018

Dear Miki,
I became involved with a married man a year ago, understanding that his relationship with his wife was one of convenience not love. I was bouncing back from a relationship and thought I would never let anyone close again. I let down my guard and began to care. As I drew closer to him I understood his lifestyle is unconventional and that he has several women at once, sometimes intermingling these relationships. I’ve tried to move away from this relationship in the past, but it seems I am strangely attracted to the chaos. It’s been sometime since our last encounter. When we’re together, he expresses love and hopes for the future, then vanishes without a trace until the next random encounter. The story of his life continues to unravel, and there is still much I don’t know, so the truth is a blur. Since he has come into my life he has helped me emotionally in so many ways, and I think perhaps that is why I do not harbor any ill feelings towards him. I have a strange peace and confidence in what we share. Can you make some sense out of this situation? Should I expect him to come around again? Can you make any future predictions about our relationship?
Signed Wondering…

This is a very charming,manipulative person that you are dealing with here who is drawing on your trust and affection, not to mention that of all the others involved. He’s using all of you to boost his ego and feed his fantasies. It’s truly irrelevant how well he treats you. I would end this fast, its obstructing you from meeting the right person. Stop wondering about having a relationship here, you and everyone else are just a convenience for him like the poor victim who married him.

Daily Affirmation

Deception is an arrow that plunges deeply into the spirit of an unsuspecting heart and eventually tears it apart.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Ask Miki for Feb 28 2018

Dear Miki,
This is my first time writing for advice to anyone, as I am usually the one giving it but when it comes to my own future and decision making, I am often at a loss. Here is my dilemma.
I am a female in my mid-twenties. My one year wedding anniversary is this month. My husband is not currently working and we are in serious financial trouble. Also, he has bad anger problems that are very hard for me to deal with. On top of all this, I am struggling with my sexuality. I am attracted to women. My husband knows this, but I am starting to feel that I am more gay than straight. I am becoming very depressed with all these feelings and financial issues.
Despite all this, I do love my husband. What should I do?

Signed, Stuck in the middle

You have many things on your plate right now and it would not be a good time for you to make any life changing decisions or you will find yourself in a bigger dilemma in the end than the point that you started off from. I don’t see your husband being out of work for much longer and that will certainly help to solve your financial problems, but much bigger issues are at play here that need to be addressed. He has had problems coping with day to day responsibilities for many years and carries many issues from his family as well. He manifests anything that bothers him in anger and needs to get help to resolve his problems or he will always be angry and you will be facing a future filled with struggles. You need to let him know that even though you love him you can’t live with the rage anymore and there could be consequences leading to a break up. It’s important for you to do this as deep inside you still want to salvage the marriage. He needs to get some therapy, if he refuses as I sense he may, you have no choice but to consider a separation. I am a bit concerned that your growing attraction to women could be partially based on the disappointments you have in your current relationship and the treatment you get at home. I suggest that you speak with a counsellor who deals with gender identity and Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual issues to help you sort this out before venturing off into a new same sex relationship to be sure that is your true lifestyle choice and avoid hurting some woman who becomes involved with you. It will take a few months to get all this sorted out but in the end you will move on knowing that you have done what’s best for you and your future happiness

Daily Affirmation

I does not matter who we love or how we love provided we do it with kindness and respect

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Ask Miki for Feb 27 2018

Dear Miki,
I need some hope, I guess that the future may hold a bit of peace and happiness for me. My life has been miserable until now, and I really want to fix it but am not sure what I should be doing. Every aspect of my life is a mess. I am now recovering from breast cancer treatments and looking for work. I am trying to make sense of childhood memories; I recently met with my father after 30 years and I’m incredibly disappointed as well as shocked. In my wildest dreams I could not have imagined what evil and cruelty I would find. Since then I am haunted by bad memories and am realizing for the first time the abuse that he inflicted on me has destroyed my life. I am a mess and having a hard time seeing my way out of this. Please, if you could help me see a bit of light…maybe it will help.
Signed, M

Those who are pure of heart and intention and come from the light side of life will always attract others from the dark side who will challenge them to the limit and try to devour them, as the “good” such as yourself try to find or facilitate a spark of light from them as you did with this reunion.Do not allow the lack of concern and empathy he failed to show you along with terrifying memories of your childhood to take control of your life. As painful as this reunion was for you, it was also supposed to be a karmic lesson to bring closure to the past and leave it behind. I’m sure you have heard its better to let sleeping dogs lie, well in the case it’s more like finally driving the stake through the vampires heart the sucks the life out of whoever them come in contact with. Its over for good now, let it go and focus on the good that’s coming your way with your physical recovery and new employment between now and the end of March 2018. You have been given a chance to start anew again and you are really a warrior who knows how to survive or you would not have made it this far, so now its time to acknowledge the power that’s always be inside you. Evil cannot touch your soul as long as you release the pain it has caused you and then it perishes in the dark all alone as the stranger whose name is on your birth certificate will. Look forward with optimism to the good that is about to arrive.

Daily Affirmation

Sometime we are unable to see beyond darkness and forget that light always follows the dark and brings rebirth.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Ask Miki for August 8 2016

Dear Miki,

Do you ever get the feeling that somehow you managed to tick off the “powers that be” and they gave you such bad luck you can’t escape it? I think I did. Things have been bad and you can forget “love”. There isn’t any. I feel I’m destined to be alone. Even if I meet someone who interests me, I will not go into another relationship with anyone who is not good with my kid. I’m holding out for someone who can love not only me but my boy too. I guess I’m asking if things will get better. I can’t relax ever. I worry about everything under the sun. I’m virtually alone with my boy.  My other son does not talk to me. Sometimes I wonder if I’m capable of settling down. Trust issues are always there. I am interested in someone but he is taken, not in marriage, but taken nonetheless. I don’t want that anymore. The sad part is I really feel that this chap should be with me, but it’s not like I’ve never been wrong. I have two legs and arms that work. I have a job, a beautiful son whom I love. Sounds like I have nothing. I feel all alone and so empty. Any light would make this empty soul feel full again. Signed, D

 

If the “powers-that-be” were really ticked, you would not even have a job, a beautiful son and two legs and arms that work. Things are not as bad as you think. You just have to appreciate the good and take the bad in the doses they come. There is no need to worry about everything under the sun. Slow down. You have always been in a rush. Things will get better if you give it time. This is also true with love. You have seen it come and go. There’s no need to rush into it again or shy away from it altogether. Learn to let things happen in their own time. You will not be alone, and for as long as you can give, you will never be empty.

 

Daily Affirmation:

Judge wisely which Mistakes are those that deserve forgiveness.

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Ask Miki for July 20 2016

Dear Miki

We dated seven years, and got married 3 years ago. Now I can’t even let him touch me sexually. I stayed because I love him. His heart is big and is the sweetest, most supportive guy (most of the time). I think his cocaine habit eventually turned me off. He’s a completely different person on this drug. He has treated me like crap on many occasions. His family doesn’t think I’m good enough. His mom spoiled him and expects me to be home everyday, to take care of him like she did. He’s very dependent on me. I’m very independent. I don’t want kids, and don’t think marriage is for me. Why didn’t I figure this out before I got married? I have taken a lot of grief over the years, and I think it’s one of the reasons I’m unhappy. I feel I’m deserting him if I leave. He’ll just go out every night and do coke. Our families will have nervous breakdowns. My family loves him very much. The worst part is that I am also scared. Comfort plays a big role. Will I regret it? What is going to happen to him? His brother is a completely different story. I think I’ve been in love with him for 7 years. I always feel the tension between us. I think. I thought it was a crush or a case of, “you always want what you can’t have”. Is it? I’ve never told him how I felt, knowing it was wrong. I know I have no hope of being with him or making love with him. I just want to know why I have to feel this way. I need help.

Signed, T

You may care much for him but the way you feel about his brother is a clear reminder that you do not love him the way a wife should love a husband. Your feelings for the brother are even more confused than your feelings for your husband. Do not even go there. That would be a worse disaster than your marriage. Much as you hate every minute of it, you stay married for the most part, simply because it is convenient and familiar. You choose to settle for the devil you know. I can see that in two years time, it will turn you into a devil to dread, If you do not take bold steps to leave now. That is a choice that you and not his or your family will have to make. Your husband will have to make his own choices but that is not really your responsibility. Help yourself first.

Daily Affirmation:

Commitment entails not only being true to the other, but also being true to our self.

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on July 20, 2016 at 2:20 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for June 22 2016

Dear Miki:
A year ago my sister-in-law and I placed my brother in a nursing home; he has Alzheimer’s. She loves her husband and visits him every day, and would give anything to have him back. She and I were always good friends, but during this time we have become very close. I live in another province and visit them monthly.  Then the unexpected happened; we fell in love. I am married, but I have not been in love with my wife for many years. However, my wife is dependent on me. I have two kids who are married. She has none. I connect with my sister-in-law so well on all levels: spiritual, emotional, physical, etc. We get along great and we feel so much love and passion for each other.   We feel we have something special, but we are also concerned about what our families may think. They are not aware of our romantic relationship. Do you see me relocating to Ontario, when, and will we be together one day?

Signed, So In Love

You are so in a mess. You can be together forever but your visions of life “happily-ever-after” will quickly turn into such harsh realities if you move to Ontario. Expect to see your entire family divided. You risk losing the love and respect of your children and their children. If you are willing to pay this price then go ahead and make your move.

Daily Affirmation

Sometime it is best to review all your options before taking a leap of faith

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on June 22, 2016 at 4:48 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for June 14th 2016

Dear Miki

I met a great guy who treats me like gold. We get along great and we each see each other almost every day. Before he met me, he spent six years with a woman who turned out to be a psycho (his words), who treated him like dirt and cheated on him. He says he is not ready for a commitment and so far our relationship has been platonic. He always talks about the future and what we’ll do and always refers to us as “we” but says we are just friends. I know I have deep feelings for him – hell, I’ve fallen in love with him! I am wondering if this relationship will evolve into a commitment or if it will stay the way it is. What do you see?

Signed, S

I see a nice guy who is too hung-up from a previous love affair. For all that she was a total walking disaster, he remains emotionally connected to this woman. It is a struggle for him to break those ties and forging new commitments will be an even harder challenge. If this does not change by end of July, then the “future” he talks about will remain all talk and then you should think about your future with someone else.

 

Daily Affirmation:

Take a few minutes to rejuvenate yourself today

 

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Ask Miki for June 13 2016

Dear Miki

I’ve been married for two years. We moved to Canada last year, but my husband went back home to finalize things. We have not seen each other for over a year. Even back then, we always had discussions about him not trusting me and me not trusting him. He always thinks I am having an affair and I also think the same about him. I was really having one and I think he also did, as I saw some sweet messages on his cell phone. He says it’s only a friend who is after him not him after her, but he is the one calling her. In the mean time, I met someone at work here. We just had a one-night stand, then he won’t talk about it again. I just want to know if there will be something more between us as I cannot stop thinking about him. I know I want more.

Signed, L

 

While he is away, finalizing things back home, you also need to finalize certain things about your marriage. It’s either you love him and remain true and devoted or get a divorce and find fulfillment with someone else. Affairs and one-night stands always lead to a dead end. They only bring more emptiness and make you feel worse about your marriage and yourself. The last one you had is no exception. Do not hold your breath for anything more from that man. Clean up your problems and fix your life.

Daily Affirmation:

It takes wisdom to admit being wrong and courage to correct it.

 

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

 

Published in: on June 15, 2016 at 2:38 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for June 10 2016

Dear Miki,

I am in a long distance relationship since December. I don’t like the idea but I deeply like this guy. I never felt this way about anyone. We have so much in common and we have a great understanding. I want to marry him someday. He says I am one of the best girls he ever met, but he never tells me how he feels towards me. I really need to know if he is actually serious. He says he is. I love him but I am not sure if he does and I hate wasting time on this if it’s not going anywhere. Do you see a future for us?

Signed, J

He is more serious than he appears and he loves you as much as you love him. He is preoccupied with establishing himself right now and marriage or engagements are not priorities at the moment. In a short time they will be but you will need to have more patience for a little while.

 

Daily Affirmation

Finding patience with love will always lead you to the road filled with happiness

 

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

 

Published in: on June 9, 2016 at 10:11 pm  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 26th 2016

Dear Miki:

My situation is that I’m in a same-sex marriage. The problem is that sometimes I don’t feel like I am deeply in love with her. She had a long history with past relationships (men and woman) and because of that, she has a kid. Sometimes I don’t feel secure about her. The last months, we have been arguing for  minimal things, especially about her past. I don’t like the idea that her son’s father is continuously calling to threaten her because of child support. I don’t want him in our lives and I asked her to cut that. Her kid loves me so much and I would like to have a happy family, but without third parties. I feel depressed about this situation. What can I do? Is she in love with me? Do you see if our marriage is going to work?

Signed, I

Whether you like or not, support from the father is part of the package that comes with the kid who loves you. Besides, the father or any other third party is not the threat or the real issue in your relationship. No doubt she loves you, but part of the problem is that she has commitment issues from past relationships. The other part of the problem I see is that deep down inside, you are not really sure that this is worth all the trouble it comes with. This is the first thing you need to address, keeping in mind that love can sometimes be measured by just how much one is willing to endure and accept. The future of your marriage hinges on the stand you will take so choose very carefully.

Daily Affirmation:

Thinking we can control the actions of another is nothing more than a delusion

Miki is a Toronto-based Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955. or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: AskMiki24Hrs@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 27, 2016 at 3:17 am  Leave a Comment