AskMiki for April 26th 2018

Dear Miki,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years now and we live together.
In those five years I have been the one to cover all the financial side. He does work occasionally and has been holding off finding another job in hopes he’ll be inducted into his union. I’m getting tired of being the only one paying for everything. Is this the year he’ll finally get in and even if he does, will he contributed?

signed L

It seems that you have to take a stand and let your boyfriend know that the time has come for him to stop holding out for his own needs and face reality. Five years are long time to expect someone to carry you financially and fail to take on any responsibilities. He has learned to like being kept like a pampered cat and isn’t making any plans to change that role as he continues to await  his position. You need to issue an ultimatum now or be prepared to be the breadwinner for many years to come, but also expect your resentments to grow along with your level of exhaustion

Daily Affirmation

The foundation of good relationships are built on sharing as well as caring. Without those ingredients you are walking on thin ice that will eventually break

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

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Published in: on April 27, 2018 at 12:37 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 25 2018

Dear Miki:
I’m a traditional female, just recently graduated and would like to settle down. However, as the years roll by the choices out there are being limited. I just don’t get out often enough, and when I do, I am unable to flirt and entice a guy. If there is someone I find attractive, I turn all serious and shy. Are there any good guys who have the courage to approach a female! I have dated some guys, but they don’t compare to a relationship I had a few years ago. It was a good relationship with a good fella who had good intentions for a future together. The problem was that it seemed too good and I felt trapped, as he was a bit possessive. I believe that I was a bit inexperienced and wanted to date some more before really being able to commit to one person. We had a chance to get back together, but I did not take it. Did I turn my back to my soulmate or is Mr. right still out there?
Signed S

You have not yet missed your chance to find Mr.Right, Your ex boyfriend, although a good guy, was just not the right guy for you to spend your life with. Great boyfriends do not always turn into great soulmates, as not all the relationships we encounter on life’s journey are meant to be permanent. You will not be without other great offers that may ultimately be more comfortable matches for you.

Daily Affirmation:
Take a personal inventory of what you need to change and follow a plan to do it

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 25, 2018 at 12:31 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 24 2018

Dear Miki
I’ve been together with my girlfriend thirteen years now, we were high school sweethearts. We’ve had many bumps on the road, but we have always managed to overcome them. We are getting older now and I’m at the point where I am thinking about ”marriage”, but don’t think my partner is there yet. Throughout the relationship we’ve had some years apart, she went to study abroad for three years. She is very generous loving and a caring person, but gives me the feeling that she’s moved on and is waiting for me to figure it out. I feel like I’m being kept in the dark by her. Recently I moved out of our apartment to diffuse any situations that may arise and she left for Europe for the summer, something that she has done throughout our relationship. She never contacted me to tell me she returned. When I called she told me that it would be best for now that I give her time, before we speak again. I know she’s stressed with school, and work and I don’t want to add to her stress, so I’ve done what she’s asked. I’m looking for some sign, that the hard work we’ve put in has not been a waste of time. She’s the love of my life and I love her with all my heart and soul.
Signed Waiting

You have many admirable qualities that will make you a great catch in the game of Love. I sense that your sincere affection for this lady is not being returned anymore and she is exploring other options. I would not wait much longer for what you had to return. You have already compromised your heart one too many times in this relationship. Sadly this relationship has outgrown itself but you will find your happiness again with another sooner than you think.

Daily Affirmation:
Life is like climbing a mountain, if we avoid unstable ground then we lessen our chances of getting hurt.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 24, 2018 at 2:17 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 10th 2018

Dear Miki:

I have been sleeping with my ex on a casual basis. I was staying with him for a bit because I had nowhere to live and he’s been raising our daughter the last two years. Our daughter doesn’t know I’m her mother, although after recent discussions, we’re going to tell her soon. It suited both our needs however, I just found out over the weekend that he started seeing someone else. This is the third time he has done this to me and although I’m not “hurt” I am disappointed that he wouldn’t break it off with me first before pursuing someone else. Now I knew it wasn’t going to be a long term relationship, after all but I thought that at least I’d find someone first. In fact there is this guy I’m going to see this weekend, we’ve been toying with the idea of getting together for the past year but nothing has ever happened. He’s extremely shy and has never asked me out. Should I ask him out now that I’m available? Do you think it would be a good match or do you see someone else that is in my near future for a more long term stable relationship.

Signed B

Both of you need to stop using each other as emotional band aids, so you don’t have to be alone until each of you meets someone new. You really need some time on your own to discover what you need in your life and what will make you truly happy.  You’re sliding from relationship to relationship hoping that this will be the cleanser of your troubles and it will only serve to create more complications for you.  You also need to make your ex explain to your daughter who you are, now not later or you will really regret it in the future. Stop being his temporary bed buddy.  The relationship is over. Leave it that way.

 

Daily Affirmation

Positive relationships are built out of love, negative relationships are based on convenience.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 11, 2018 at 1:47 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 9th 2018

Dear Miki:

My Husband of eleven years and I have four boys.  I am Canadian and so are three of our boys, one was born overseas. We lived in Portugal for eight years, but it was getting very hard so we decided to come back to Canada. I’m now here with the boys and he is back home. I’m in the process of doing my husbands paperwork for him to come to Canada, it was a year in October that he has been away from us. We were fine until a couple of months ago when I was told that he was cheating on me. He says its nothing, and he wants to be with us. Everyone overseas tells me that he is always with this other woman, and she is sleeping in our bed in our home over there. I love him very much but I am scared sometimes. I feel like my life is over and I should never have come back to Canada, even though it is better here for my children, and there is now food on the table everyday.  I want to know is there any hope, or am I the loser.

Signed F

You are obviously devoted to keeping your family together. Your husband has taken advantage of your situation and gotten himself a temporary wife back home overseas.  Leave him there, continue to build yourself a new life and get a new man here in Canada. Let his new girlfriend build a better life for him at her expense.

Daily Affirmation:

If we look hard enough there is always a solution for our greatest concerns.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 10, 2018 at 11:29 pm  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki For April 5th 2018

Dear Miki
My boyfriend and I have been together two and a half years and on and off for about six months . Now that we have gotten back together his attitude towards me has completely changed and I don’t understand why. He takes me nowhere and the reason is because he’s busy. He shows no affection towards me and he says its because you should never let someone know exactly how you feel about them. I have said that I love him and had it said back in return, but it doesn’t seem believable. I have not yet been properly introduced to his family members and he has no reason for this other than he’s busy. I met his mother only by chance when I went over to his house to visit and she happened to be there. I said hello introduced myself, and good night. I want to know does he really love me? Are we going to last much longer?
Signed Lonely

Its time to call this relationship off. There is no deep attachment towards you from this man and you will find the relationship going nowhere in the long run. Its also causing anger and unhappiness. Let him continue to be busy in his life, while you get busy finding a new love interest.

Daily Affirmation:
Anger is a negative emotion that only serves to obstruct us from finding happiness

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 6, 2018 at 1:41 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for April 3 2018

Dear Miki

In April of 2000, I had a baby boy at Toronto East general hospital. Children’s aid society got involved prior to his release and made our lives a nightmare for 3 years. We had him at home only 3 months before his father got violent in front of the worker, and an apprehension warrant was issued, and our son taken away. We had supervised visits with him until he was 10 months old, until we lost our initial fight in court. I wound up appealing for 2 more years and still lost because his father wasn’t out of the picture long enough. I think about my son daily, every birthday has been torture for me. With his 18th birthday coming up soon, I’m trying really hard to find him to tell him about medical conditions he probably will inherit from me, if he doesn’t already know. The non identifying information I received about him and his family from 2004 indicates that he was well aware of his adoption. His mother was a teacher, his father was a firefighter. He was a very affectionate child and The only picture I have of him after he was taken was taken at his foster home at age 2. Do you think I’ll be able to find him?

The story you tell is filled with struggle and heartbreak. Its obvious that is only coming from you not the father of your child now or in the past. You made some efforts to try and get you child back but they failed and his life took a major turn towards a different future. I think the problem that you are now faced with is that despite the fact that you are on the hunt for your son he is not yet looking for you. Until the time comes you can consider this situation at a stalemate. I know that it will hurt to hear this , but at least take some comfort in knowing that he was raised by good people, well cared for and there is a place and time for everything in destiny.

Daily Affirmation
Loss is a painful wound but with the passage of time someone comes along who helps it to heal

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on April 3, 2018 at 11:39 pm  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 27 2018

Dear Miki,

I’m newly married to a woman who is two years older than me, who has a seven year old boy from her Ex. I love her and she loves me. She loves her son and he’s very close to his Mom. Her son was without his father for more than three years, or better to say, he doesn’t really know his father. I consider her relationship with him to be normal except for one problem. When I kiss my wife, he has to come and ask his mom to kiss him also, and hear from her that she loves him more than me. She sometime kisses him herself, but won’t come near me. When we are together he asks his mom if he can lay down on the bed and he parks there hugging and kissing his mom. When I want to be affectionate and when her son is around, sometimes she seems cold to me and I’m confused and a bit afraid about that. This has made me upset and she understands that I’m right about this situation, but she does nothing about it. I’m waiting for an answer from your side

Signed J

Your new found happiness is not over but there is some work to be done . Your spouse’s child is feeling a bit threatened by your closeness with his mom as he has had her all to himself for several years.  Your spouse has to put her foot down and stop him from competing for her attention at this young age or it will grow into a bigger battle in the future. Let her get the ground work started, but ultimately she has to let you as her husband help her work this out and shying away from your affections to please her child is definitely not the solution.  She is losing her parent to Child boundaries and needs to get them back before she loses them and you in the future.

 

Daily Affirmation:

It is important to have personal boundaries even with those that we love the most.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 28, 2018 at 2:59 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 26 2018

Dear Miki,

I’m a 26 year old female that just got a new job which I enjoy, however I still feel unhappy and lost at this point in my life. I’m currently still living at home with my son and feel its time for me to go out on my own. I would also like to be in a meaningful and worthwhile relationship,but have been unable to find the right man. I was wondering if you could enlighten my situation of what you see for me, and if I am currently following the right path in life?

Lost

In terms of following the right path, it’s time to spread your wings and fly on your own.  Living at home has provided you with necessities but has slowed you down in your personal life.  The coming year should bring some new opportunities for romance for you, so don’t be afraid to move forward, it’s time to get back in tune with making yourself happy.

Daily Affirmation:

Correcting our mistakes can only make things better, living in them is a breeding ground for unhappiness.

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 28, 2018 at 2:30 am  Leave a Comment  

Ask Miki for March 22 2018

Dear Miki,

My boyfriend and I were together for three years. I was there when he was down with no job and needed to go to school. Yet, he treated me badly. I endured that because I love him. He’d borrow money to gamble. If I don’t give, he’d call it quits. Later, he’ll apologize. Since he found a job, he barely calls. If I call, he’s got nothing to say. When I was at his place, I saw women’s telephone numbers. It made me think he’s been cheating but denies it.  Am I wrong?

Signed, M

Whether or not he is cheating ought to be the least of your concerns. You are in an intolerable position in this relationship and you endured not out of love but more out of fear of being alone. You know that he has no love for you.  You tolerate it because you have convinced yourself you will not find anyone else.  This is not true. There is someone worth the love you can give. Get rid of him.

 

Daily Affirmation

Everyday spent in a relationship gone wrong is a day of future happiness lost.

 

Miki is a Professional Psychic -Medium who is featured daily in the media. Personal and telephone appointments are available as well as lectures, Corporate Events ,Private parties and media events Please call us at (416) 537-5955 and 1 877 ASK-MIKI or visit our website at http://www.askmiki.ca Send your questions via e-mail to: Askmikicolumn@aol.com. Please include with your questions, names, birth dates and photos, (if available), of yourself and persons you wish to ask about and a brief description of your situation. All identities will be kept confidential

Published in: on March 24, 2018 at 4:53 am  Leave a Comment