Dear Miki,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years now and we live together.
In those five years I have been the one to cover all the financial side. He does work occasionally and has been holding off finding another job in hopes he’ll be inducted into his union. I’m getting tired of being the only one paying for everything. Is this the year he’ll finally get in and even if he does, will he contributed?
signed L
It seems that you have to take a stand and let your boyfriend know that the time has come for him to stop holding out for his own needs and face reality. Five years are long time to expect someone to carry you financially and fail to take on any responsibilities. He has learned to like being kept like a pampered cat and isn’t making any plans to change that role as he continues to await his position. You need to issue an ultimatum now or be prepared to be the breadwinner for many years to come, but also expect your resentments to grow along with your level of exhaustion
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